Chosing Your Close Circle - Stuart Sneddon

I've recently been reflecting on the story of Moses in Exodus 17. In this story, the Israelites are battling the Amalekites. Whenever Moses had his arms raised, the Israelites were winning, but when his arms lowered, the Amalekites began to prevail. To help, Moses’s companions Aaron and Hur held up his arms, and as a result, the Israelites won the battle.

This story highlights the importance of the people we surround ourselves with. Here are three key qualities to look for in those we allow into our close circle:

1) Supportive Companions: We need people of God around us, those in whom the Spirit dwells, who encourage us and help us in our daily battles. Just as Aaron and Hur physically supported Moses, we need friends who will hold us up when we are weary.

2) Understanding and Awareness: Aaron and Hur were with Moses and understood his situation without him having to ask for help. They saw his struggle and stepped in to assist. Similarly, the people closest to us should be aware of our challenges and be ready to support us without needing detailed explanations. These are friends who know our hearts and respond to our needs instinctively.

3) Practical Assistance and Encouragement: Aaron and Hur didn’t just hold up Moses’s arms; they also found a rock for him to sit on, making his task more manageable. Our true friends are those who not only provide moral support but also offer practical help to ease our burdens, making it easier for us to follow God’s plan.

Ann and I have experienced the value of such friendships. We’ve supported each other and our friends through various challenges, and these shared experiences have strengthened our bonds. The story of Moses reminds us that the right companions can make a significant difference in our journey, providing the support and encouragement we need to persevere.